Reminding One's Excesses and Shortcomings




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Reminding One's Excesses and Shortcomings

Postby Prozac » Sat Mar 18, 2023 10:04 am

    

Nakakapagod din ang magbigay ng paalala lalo na kung nakikitang mong walang pagbabago ang binibigyan mo nito.
Akala nyo ba natutuwa at nagagalak ang mga nagbibigay ng puna sa mga pinaggagawa nila? Akala mo ba ay feeling
virtuous sila, decent, principled at faultless ... na kung umasta na lang ay sila na ang the most honorable and the
most righteous?

Hindi ito ang punto hijo. Sinasabi nila ang mga nakita nila dahil mahal ka nila -hindi dahil takaw-puna sila. May mga
pagkamali sila for sure, but that doesn't stop them to remind you of your excesses and shortcomings? They are doing
this dahil gusto ka nilang magbago. Yon lang yon.

Kung ayaw mo - your choice. But don't blame them for showing concern and apprehension that you going down the
abyss of nothingness. For all its worth ikaw na rin makapagpatunay in your history that after ignoring their warnings
tapos bumagsak ka ... wala kang maisip pupuntahan kundi bumalik sa kanila.


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Re: Reminding One's Excesses and Shortcomings

Postby Prozac » Sat Mar 18, 2023 10:08 am

Bakit may mga taong ayaw magbago? Allergic sila sa mga puna at constructive criticism na sana ay gawin nilang
gabay sa pagtahak sa buhay. Ayaw nila ang mga reminders na paulit-ulit, at recycled at kung narinig na nila ang
puna mo noon ... ayaw na nilang marinig ito ngayon. Pag pinuna mo ulit buong ningning nilang sabihin ito sa iyo.
Ayaw nilang mapuna, pero mabilis pa sa alas kuatro kung magpuna sa iba, BASTA HINDI SIYA.

Hindi kaya nila alam kaya sinasabi mo ito ng paulit-ulit ... na para ka nang sirang plaka (katulad ng pangungutang)
... dahil paulit-ulit din nilang ginagawa ito ng walang habas without even realizing na lubog na sila sa utang?
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Re: Reminding One's Excesses and Shortcomings

Postby Prozac » Sat Mar 18, 2023 10:11 am

In my opinion ang mga nangyari above is a battle of egos. Gusto patunayan ng isa't isa kung sino ang matira at sino
ang matibay sa usaping pagpuna at pagalala. Ang parent gusto lang maging magulang ,,, at ang mga anak naman para
silang abogadong nilulusotan ang bawat argumento.

Bakit ayaw makinig ... at bakit ayaw ang paulit-ulit na sermon - hindi kaya sa dahilan na may plano at gagawin nila ulit
ang mga bagay na pinaalaala sa kanila (in this case the habit of borrowing money)? Pagpangutang na lang ba ang natitirang
option? How about looking for a job ... mahirap ba gawin ang option na ito?

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Re: Reminding One's Excesses and Shortcomings

Postby Prozac » Sat Mar 18, 2023 10:17 am

If somebody corrected you, you either become DEFENSIVE by giving him a piece of your mind ..or you become
OFFENSIVE by giving him a punch from behind. One thing is clear ... boy you have an ego problem as big as
the world.

Somebody has to deflate that bloated ego, the excess air in your head makes you feel suffocated and asphyxiated
by harmless criticism. You don't need to feel gagged or strangled by the pressures created by Narcissus (your
narcissistic tendencies) and your pride that is so high, you become unreachable.
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Re: Reminding One's Excesses and Shortcomings

Postby Prozac » Sat Mar 18, 2023 10:20 am

Ego ... or BIG EGO to be exact is said to be one of the reasons why the relationship doesn't last ... be it a father-son
relationship ... or maybe just between a man and a woman so much in love. When an inflated ego takes position ...
it occupies too much empty space ... it separates them and creates a distance between the two.

So when the father said: "Son you need to find a job ... so you will know the value of money." If the son's response is:
"Do I really have to do that? Work can wait ... I am still enjoying the free money I am getting from you ..." then you
know EGO has destroyed what a suppose to be an insightful conversation.

The son needs to delete the"e" ... and let it "GO".
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Re: Reminding One's Excesses and Shortcomings

Postby Prozac » Sat Mar 18, 2023 10:23 am

I really hate to say it, but some children assume that when a parent provides feedback or is trying to mirror the
son's behavior (whether it is constructive or destructive), he or she is a HATER. Your parent does not hate you,
(for crying out loud) they are just telling you the truth ... & they are just concerned about you.

If you hate listening to words of wisdom or comforting words ... something is wrong somewhere. If you are not
OPEN to parental advice/fatherly reminders then you are not OPEN to growing up like a mature adult.

Now let us make the situation reverse: how would you feel ... if you are at the lowest ebb of your life ... and
here comes your parents being silent about the whole thing ... or worse ... making you feel you are alone in
your fight.

Just food for thought for you: don't wait until your parents will stop giving you constructive criticism. When that
situation comes ... most likely they have given up on you.
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Re: Reminding One's Excesses and Shortcomings

Postby Virginia Dalisay » Sat Mar 18, 2023 2:52 pm

Ano yan? Para kanino yan??? :-O :-O 8->

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Re: Reminding One's Excesses and Shortcomings

Postby Prozac » Sun Mar 19, 2023 9:00 am

Virginia Dalisay wrote: Ano yan? Para kanino yan??? :-O :-O 8->


Virginia Dalisay isn't it obvious? I already mentioned the person above kahit pahapyaw lang. He is somebody
that bears my name.

Sometimes I resort to writing ... when I could not get an intelligent and mature discussion with the guy. It is
therapeutic for me.

There is always a clash of ideas ... yon bang kung hindi makasagot sa argument ... parang katapusan na ng
mundo ... kaya kailangan niya talagang lusutan. He is a slick Willie and as slippery as an eel. It is a matter
of survival of his EGO, kaya kahit MALI gustong ITAMA!

Thanks for asking though ... it means a lot.

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