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- I NEED TO KNOW PLEASE HELP.

Postby tai » Sun Dec 13, 2009 3:37 pm

    

Does my friend like me?

Here are a few things that makes me wonder:


- First time we met, He constantly kept looking at me at a birthday dinner, we were both of seperate ends of the table... As i would talk to the people beside me... i would look up and then catch him looking at me and then look away... He kept doing this throughout the night.

- A year later we became good friends...we made eachother laugh, and we could talk for ages... He would comment saying 'thats my ass' (meaning my ass was his lol) and he went through of a faze constantly grabbing it (my bum). I thought this was probably a playful joke.

- He got wierd when i told him i was going out with this girl... his first words out of his mouth was :O shes a princess. (note he didnt even know her)
when i broke it off...He was happy, and said how much he didnt like her... (still didnt know her)
sometimes i would make a joke and just see how he would react by saying im getting back with her... he would get a bit angry and say 'i dont like her'.

- He gets really wierd if i kiss girls on the lips... His face goes blank and looks away.

- Lol i was drunk one night and was sitting on the roof... i needed help to get down and he comes across and tells me to 'jump' with his arms reaching out to me...I jump and fall into his arms then he looks at me and says 'I'll be your superman'... in a serious voice.

- At a formal dance... all of our friends are dancing, he then suddenly grabs me and starts dancing slow and holds me... i let go soon after as i thought it was a bit wierd with everyones family watching.

- He tells me he loves me (i still think its one of his jokes) but i reply saying 'ahh thank you? (confused)'... and then he says 'is that all you have to say thanks...Im telling you how i feel and thats what you say' with a slight pissed off tone.

- One day we were walking and he grabs my hand and he holds tight... and says 'i love you'... i dont say anything but then he says "f%cking say i love you too'... i then say 'i love you too' and pull away from his hand... I couldnt tell if he was joking or not.. but he tries to hold my hand a second time but dont allow it...

- Sometimes when i would stand up. He would come from behind and put his arms around me, i let this go for a few seconds but then pull away.

- A girl asked to kiss him at a party (he was a bit drunk)... he said 'No, but I will kiss Tai though'... and then he leans in for a kiss but i face away and he kisses my cheek.

- He likes to takes pictures of just me with out me knowing on his phone.

- He tells me how he thinks im sexy and good looking.

- A girl starts kissing my neck (as a friendly way), but then he sees this and comes and does the same thing.

- Finally at a party i was drunk and wanted to go lay on a bed by myself... a few seconds later... he walks in the room and then lays ontop of me... I say 'oh your heavy, get off' he doesn't move... at this point i was drunk to even care... he then puts his hand up my tshirt and feels up and down my stomach... he then moans... and feels my ass... I say 'what are you doing?' but then he jumps off as he hears one of his friends about to come in the room... A girl comes in a says i want you (to him) and then he replies saying 'I want tai' and then walks off...

Im very confused whether if he likes me or not... i mean, he only does it to me... but he hasnt said if he is gay or not, but his family and some friends thinks so?

What do you guys think... its killing me? i need your opinions... :)>-


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Re: - I NEED TO KNOW PLEASE HELP.

Postby CHOTA CHETAN » Sun Dec 13, 2009 5:16 pm

Tai honestly this story is so similar to mine but in my case i am that friend of yours......I was so totally in love with this guy and the biggest fuckup was that he was married and i still fell for him and he would do things to me(like squeezing my dick, kissing me on my cheeks and strippin nude in front of me) which used to confuse me so much that i used to think that he too loves me but it was not the case he just used me......he used to make me pay for his wife's shopping and i like a fool used to just swipe my credit card for him....you won't believe this but i even gave my debit card to him once as he had to take his wife out......Tai i dont know if u r gay but if u r then i would say just go for him........Atleast he hasn't used u.....i am sure he is totally in love with you....in case you are not gay you guys need to talk and sort this thing over....please don't be too harsh on him he might be very sensitive and might take it very badly if you said no..........
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Re: - I NEED TO KNOW PLEASE HELP.

Postby tai » Mon Dec 14, 2009 12:20 am

DickTracy wrote:Tai honestly this story is so similar to mine but in my case i am that friend of yours......I was so totally in love with this guy and the biggest fuckup was that he was married and i still fell for him and he would do things to me(like squeezing my dick, kissing me on my cheeks and strippin nude in front of me) which used to confuse me so much that i used to think that he too loves me but it was not the case he just used me......he used to make me pay for his wife's shopping and i like a fool used to just swipe my credit card for him....you won't believe this but i even gave my debit card to him once as he had to take his wife out......Tai i dont know if u r gay but if u r then i would say just go for him........Atleast he hasn't used u.....i am sure he is totally in love with you....in case you are not gay you guys need to talk and sort this thing over....please don't be too harsh on him he might be very sensitive and might take it very badly if you said no..........


Im very sorry to hear...Im sure you will find the right person.

But thank you for giving me your opinion, he hasnt used me, i don't pay for anything...He hates when if i offer, he doesnt allow it.
He is very sensitive, and thats why i allow the things he does. I dont ever really do it in return. Im not to sure if he is or if he isn't, thats why i hesitate to make the second move or even the first one...I do really like him, i just dont want to lose him, incase if he isnt.
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Re: - I NEED TO KNOW PLEASE HELP.

Postby tai » Mon Dec 14, 2009 12:27 am

beebee wrote:no doubt about it! Depends if you are straight or not and if you like him back, but he is almost definetly in love with you

put it this way.... Ive never seen a straight guy go and kiss an other guy's neck....

Unless he is just really strange....


Thank you for your comment :)

I do really like him, another thing he broke up with his gf over no reason, as soon as we became close. and he hasnt had any gf since we become friends.
He holds back when he is around his friends, but sometimes he might do something little to me and his friends call him 'gay'...He goes wierd and a bit pissed off at them.

He always makes the first move, but i don't do anything in return... because im scared im getting the wrong message. I don't want to risk it incase i might lose him.
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