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Postby Kahealani » Fri Aug 28, 2009 9:29 am

    

be honest. do u miss ur ex? i broke up with my ex 2 years ago & the first 6 months was torture. i eventually stopped crying after about a year. nowadays... yeah i still do miss him. but not as much as i used to, thank god.

like little things remind me of our times together. certain songs on the radio, certain foods we use to enjoy... movies, ect. the only difference is that nowadays, the urge to want to be with him is not so great. i'm dating again now but im so relectant to let my guard down.

i feel like i cannot trust, or love completely coz of the past. i remember how heartbroken i was & then i start to feel like what if my heart gets broken again?

all coz of my fucking ex. DAMMIT! :%(( :%(( :%(( :%((

so... do u miss ur ex? and why? and how did u get over it?

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Postby darinnes042490 » Fri Aug 28, 2009 9:40 am

hmm yeah i missed him a lot..we broke 3 years ago but now after three years of crying i let my heart to love again but still cant help myself to love him. he's my first love,first kiss and evrythng :)>-
i hope he's fyn but i dont want to have contct with him again coz i cant stop myself loving him again and again

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Re: do u miss ur ex?

Postby SolitarySoul » Fri Aug 28, 2009 9:52 am

Me?

It has been more than ayear ago since we broke up.

Before, since the wound was so fresh I really missed him.

He never heared anything from me but acceptance of the fact that he no longe loves me.

Well, after that I resisted myself not to text him and communicate with him but fortunately he was the one who exerted efforts to know how I am.

I alredy moved on and I am not missing him.

Why should I?

I am still single but very happy to be sourrounded by the love of family and friends.

Let those precisous moments linger on but not the name of the guy who broke my heart.
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Re: do u miss ur ex?

Postby darinnes042490 » Fri Aug 28, 2009 9:54 am

darinnes042490 wrote:hmm yeah i missed him a lot..we broke 3 years ago but now after three years of crying i let my heart to love again but still cant help myself to miss him.he's my first love,first kiss and evrythng :)>-
i hope he's fyn but i dont want to have contct with him again coz i cant stop myself loving him again and again

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move on..or drink a lot of beer :)>- :)>-
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Re: do u miss ur ex?

Postby Kahealani » Fri Aug 28, 2009 9:56 am

darinnes042490 wrote:hmm yeah i missed him a lot..we broke 3 years ago but now after three years of crying i let my heart to love again but still cant help myself to love miss my first love,first kiss and evrythng :)>-
i hope he's fined but i dont want to have contct with him again coz i cant stop myself loving himagain and again

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i'm sorry, girl. pero alam mo na... kung if its meant to be... babalik rin sya sayo. god willing. pero kung hindi... then u have to move on. its so difficult, di ba? it must be very hard for u kasi first love mo sya.
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Re: do u miss ur ex?

Postby Kahealani » Fri Aug 28, 2009 9:58 am

SolitarySoul wrote:Me?

It has been more than ayear ago since we broke up.

Before, since the wound was so fresh I really missed him.

He never heared anything from me but acceptance of the fact that he no longe loves me.

Well, after that I resisted myself not to text him and communicate with him but fortunately he was the one who exerted efforts to know how I am.

I alredy moved on and I am not missing him.

Why should I?

I am still single but very happy to be sourrounded by the love of family and friends.

Let those precisous moments linger on but not the name of the guy who broke my heart.

YES! totoo yan! if it wasnt for my family & friends... i would be very depressed.

but... bakit ka nya tinext? i think he still has feelings 4 u.
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Re: do u miss ur ex?

Postby beautywatchnyc » Fri Aug 28, 2009 10:04 am

Having fallen out of love doesn't give you the right NOT to fall in love all over again. Give love a chance to touch your heart and enjoy the bliss while it lasts. You have to be able to embrace the cycle of loving and sharing, not that you're encouraged to be promiscuous. That certainly is another matter. But you have to be realistic enough to always remember that nothing in a gay relationship is permanent. Even a "normal" male to female relationship may not last long. How much more for gay love? That's why it will serve to always leave a slice of your heart for youself to love. Personally, it's always been my desire to be in speaking terms with my ex's. And to that I've managed to succeed thus far. There's a promise of growth after a failed relationship. One learns and become a better persona after that. You cannot be bitter all the time and stay at that island for long. Because after a period of devastation, you realize that you could wake up and still see the sun rising in the east the next morning. If you are realistic enough, you must always bear in mind there's the impermanence, the instability, and the emptinees that go with a failed relationship. That's why it will serve to be civil with your ex's. Being intimate for a while, you'll never know when you will need his/her help over again.
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Re: do u miss ur ex?

Postby beautywatchnyc » Fri Aug 28, 2009 10:06 am

Having fallen out of love doesn't give you the right NOT to fall in love all over again. Give love a chance to touch your heart and enjoy the bliss while it lasts. You have to be able to embrace the cycle of loving and sharing, not that you're encouraged to be promiscuous. That certainly is another matter. But you have to be realistic enough to always remember that nothing in a gay relationship is permanent. Even a "normal" male to female relationship may not last long. How much more for gay love? That's why it will serve to always leave a slice of your heart for youself to love. Personally, it's always been my desire to be in speaking terms with my ex's. And to that I've managed to succeed thus far. There's a promise of growth after a failed relationship. One learns and become a better persona after that. You cannot be bitter all the time and stay at that island for long. Because after a period of devastation, you realize that you could wake up and still see the sun rising in the east the next morning. If you are realistic enough, you must always bear in mind there's the impermanence, the instability, and the emptiness that go with a failed relationship. That's why it will serve to be civil with your ex's. Being intimate for a while, you'll never know when you will need his/her help over again.
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Re: do u miss ur ex?

Postby Kahealani » Fri Aug 28, 2009 10:11 am

beautywatchnyc wrote:Having fallen out of love doesn't give you the right NOT to fall in love all over again. Give love a chance to touch your heart and enjoy the bliss while it lasts. You have to be able to embrace the cycle of loving and sharing, not that you're encouraged to be promiscuous. That certainly is another matter. But you have to be realistic enough to always remember that nothing in a gay relationship is permanent. Even a "normal" male to female relationship may not last long. How much more for gay love? That's why it will serve to always leave a slice of your heart for youself to love. Personally, it's always been my desire to be in speaking terms with my ex's. And to that I've managed to succeed thus far. There's a promise of growth after a failed relationship. One learns and become a better persona after that. You cannot be bitter all the time and stay at that island for long. Because after a period of devastation, you realize that you could wake up and still see the sun rising in the east the next morning. If you are realistic enough, you must always bear in mind there's the impermanence, the instability, and the emptiness that go with a failed relationship. That's why it will serve to be civil with your ex's. Being intimate for a while, you'll never know when you will need his/her help over again.

WOW! omg... THANK GOD ur here!!!!!! kuya, ur answers are always profound. ur like the Dr. Phil of pinoy chat.

pero bakit ganon? why must romantic love be impermanent? baket???? because it vreally does make me bitter. how the hell am i gonna want to fall in love again with the pestering thought that it might end at any moment?

ANO BA YAN???? its so sad talaga. love in itself is such a huge sacrifice.
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Re: do u miss ur ex?

Postby 098march » Fri Aug 28, 2009 12:28 pm

not really,,, i had forgotten the love that i had for that guy, so right now, i am not missing that person,
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Re: do u miss ur ex?

Postby galapagos5963 » Fri Aug 28, 2009 1:09 pm

it's quite obvious that you still have feelings for him.
otherwise you should have gotten over him.

which leads me to ask this question...
do you think he still feels the same and has feelings for you?

the answer is probably no. given the time frame that you mentioned,
there was at least a chance that the two of you could have been together again,
if the indeed the feeling was mutual.

so given the circumstances, i suggest you move on.

it's nice to look back at the past once in a while. but it's not
good to dwell in the past. just imagine how many opportunities
you might have missed, just because you were inside your room crying,
for someone who is not around to reciprocate your love.

goodluck.
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Re: do u miss ur ex?

Postby simplyme » Fri Aug 28, 2009 1:23 pm

Sometimes, I do miss him, he was my first love and first everything.
I guess it's true what they say that you don't just easily forget your first love.
But I've learned to let go and maybe the right person for me is still out there.
Love yourself more by letting go especially if your ex has moved on already.
Stop hanging on to someone who doesn't give a damn about you anymore.
It's wiser to let go.
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Re: do u miss ur ex?

Postby staccato » Fri Aug 28, 2009 2:25 pm

no, cause i ve found someone who is lots lots better than him....

i just miss him in bed... but he doesnt deserve to get my respect...
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Re: do u miss ur ex?

Postby Pawee » Fri Aug 28, 2009 5:20 pm

i stopped missing my ex when someone much better came along to replace him in my heart... :)
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Re: do u miss ur ex?

Postby yel » Fri Aug 28, 2009 5:29 pm

I don't. =;))
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Postby kalachuchi » Fri Aug 28, 2009 5:40 pm

a BIG NOOOOOOOOO!!!!!
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Re: do u miss ur ex?

Postby Nicklauscards_14 » Sat Aug 29, 2009 1:55 am

kalachuchi wrote:a BIG NOOOOOOOOO!!!!!


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Re: do u miss ur ex?

Postby ardyvanviesta » Sat Aug 29, 2009 2:03 am

I don't.

But sometimes yes, i do miss them. But 90% I have never miss my ex-es...
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Postby darinnes042490 » Sat Aug 29, 2009 3:49 am

first love never dies :"> :"> :"> :"> :"> ..
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Re: do u miss ur ex?

Postby arisu » Sat Aug 29, 2009 4:11 am

I still talk with my first ex, we remained in good terms (friends) but he did discuss if we should get back together. The timing wasn't right. Right now, I am in a great relationship, I wouldn't give it up for the world though almost everything reminds me of my first ex. Even though i'm sad, I need to move on. As for my other exes, I don't want them back, there are too many painful memories.

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Postby PILYO » Sat Aug 29, 2009 6:36 am

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Re: do u miss ur ex?

Postby Kahealani » Sat Aug 29, 2009 7:03 am

galapagos5963 wrote:it's quite obvious that you still have feelings for him.
otherwise you should have gotten over him.

which leads me to ask this question...
do you think he still feels the same and has feelings for you?

the answer is probably no. given the time frame that you mentioned,
there was at least a chance that the two of you could have been together again,
if the indeed the feeling was mutual.

so given the circumstances, i suggest you move on.

it's nice to look back at the past once in a while. but it's not
good to dwell in the past. just imagine how many opportunities
you might have missed, just because you were inside your room crying,
for someone who is not around to reciprocate your love.

goodluck.

omg. ur post is so direct that it makes me wanna cry. is it that obvious? its hard for me to let go. coz for a long time i thought i had found that right person for me. until it ended. but yeah, im trying really hard. im praying too.
simplyme wrote:Sometimes, I do miss him, he was my first love and first everything.
I guess it's true what they say that you don't just easily forget your first love.
But I've learned to let go and maybe the right person for me is still out there.
Love yourself more by letting go especially if your ex has moved on already.
Stop hanging on to someone who doesn't give a damn about you anymore.
It's wiser to let go.

im trying, sister. but i was with him for 5 years. thats a long time. its like.. a divorce. i used to feel gutted & destroyed. im doing a lot better now.

and ur right. a first love is unforgettable. i will never forget mine.
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gurl, i feel u. i hate my ex... even tho i love him.

arisu wrote:I still talk with my first ex, we remained in good terms (friends) but he did discuss if we should get back together. The timing wasn't right. Right now, I am in a great relationship, I wouldn't give it up for the world though almost everything reminds me of my first ex. Even though i'm sad, I need to move on. As for my other exes, I don't want them back, there are too many painful memories.

Kahealani, is your avatar Rina Sakurai the japanese model in Ageha? :) I loooove her! She's so pretty.

gosh, lucky u. i can NEVER be friends with any of my exes. EVER. i never understood ppl that stay in touch w/ their exes. coz i guess for me, i cant fathom seeing them w/o me. lolz!

uhm yeah, itt is indeed Rina. i love her!!! she's so kawaii desu ne. ^_^
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Re: do u miss ur ex?

Postby SKY2SKY » Sat Aug 29, 2009 7:23 am

One of the first things that you should do when you are missing your ex is to realize that there are two directions that you can go with your grief. First, you can stagnate where you are and continuously dwell on the past, or you can pick yourself up, realize that it is not doing you any good to dwell on the past, and move forward. This is what they often refer to as the "fork in the road". Many individuals have taken the path that you are currently on, and have found, that over time, their grief becomes more bearable and they are able to lead productive lives, and even move on to new relationships. This may not seem possible at this point in your life, but just keeping an open mind to the fact that it is can be very helpful.
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Re: do u miss ur ex?

Postby Mharquee » Sat Aug 29, 2009 7:47 am

beautywatchnyc wrote:Having fallen out of love doesn't give you the right NOT to fall in love all over again. Give love a chance to touch your heart and enjoy the bliss while it lasts. You have to be able to embrace the cycle of loving and sharing, not that you're encouraged to be promiscuous. That certainly is another matter. But you have to be realistic enough to always remember that nothing in a gay relationship is permanent. Even a "normal" male to female relationship may not last long. How much more for gay love? That's why it will serve to always leave a slice of your heart for youself to love. Personally, it's always been my desire to be in speaking terms with my ex's. And to that I've managed to succeed thus far. There's a promise of growth after a failed relationship. One learns and become a better persona after that. You cannot be bitter all the time and stay at that island for long. Because after a period of devastation, you realize that you could wake up and still see the sun rising in the east the next morning. If you are realistic enough, you must always bear in mind there's the impermanence, the instability, and the emptiness that go with a failed relationship. That's why it will serve to be civil with your ex's. Being intimate for a while, you'll never know when you will need his/her help over again.


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Re: do u miss ur ex?

Postby Ms.Valentine » Sat Aug 29, 2009 1:22 pm

i often missed him and keep hurting in silence!
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Re: do u miss ur ex?

Postby harrie » Sat Aug 29, 2009 1:28 pm

i miss him no more.... :-*
CONTINUE BASHING.. BUT IN THE END WE WILL CONTINUE REJOICING!!! MABUHAY TO THE FILIPINA QUEENS!
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Re: do u miss ur ex?

Postby MATIUS » Thu Sep 10, 2009 2:25 pm

NO...HE IS LIAR
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Re: do u miss ur ex?

Postby waggy » Fri Sep 11, 2009 5:17 am

i remember the person
but i dont remember the feelings anymore...
so i dont mISS him at all...
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Re: do u miss ur ex?

Postby Desi » Fri Sep 11, 2009 5:26 pm

NO!!! but I know he miss me.... >:) >:) >:) >:) >:) >:) >:) >:)
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