darinnes042490 wrote:hmm yeah i missed him a lot..we broke 3 years ago but now after three years of crying i let my heart to love again but still cant help myself to miss him.he's my first love,first kiss and evrythng
i hope he's fyn but i dont want to have contct with him again coz i cant stop myself loving him again and again
mizue hayrie ops
darinnes042490 wrote:hmm yeah i missed him a lot..we broke 3 years ago but now after three years of crying i let my heart to love again but still cant help myself to love miss my first love,first kiss and evrythng
i hope he's fined but i dont want to have contct with him again coz i cant stop myself loving himagain and again
mizue hayrie ops
SolitarySoul wrote:Me?
It has been more than ayear ago since we broke up.
Before, since the wound was so fresh I really missed him.
He never heared anything from me but acceptance of the fact that he no longe loves me.
Well, after that I resisted myself not to text him and communicate with him but fortunately he was the one who exerted efforts to know how I am.
I alredy moved on and I am not missing him.
Why should I?
I am still single but very happy to be sourrounded by the love of family and friends.
Let those precisous moments linger on but not the name of the guy who broke my heart.
beautywatchnyc wrote:Having fallen out of love doesn't give you the right NOT to fall in love all over again. Give love a chance to touch your heart and enjoy the bliss while it lasts. You have to be able to embrace the cycle of loving and sharing, not that you're encouraged to be promiscuous. That certainly is another matter. But you have to be realistic enough to always remember that nothing in a gay relationship is permanent. Even a "normal" male to female relationship may not last long. How much more for gay love? That's why it will serve to always leave a slice of your heart for youself to love. Personally, it's always been my desire to be in speaking terms with my ex's. And to that I've managed to succeed thus far. There's a promise of growth after a failed relationship. One learns and become a better persona after that. You cannot be bitter all the time and stay at that island for long. Because after a period of devastation, you realize that you could wake up and still see the sun rising in the east the next morning. If you are realistic enough, you must always bear in mind there's the impermanence, the instability, and the emptiness that go with a failed relationship. That's why it will serve to be civil with your ex's. Being intimate for a while, you'll never know when you will need his/her help over again.
kalachuchi wrote:a BIG NOOOOOOOOO!!!!!
galapagos5963 wrote:it's quite obvious that you still have feelings for him.
otherwise you should have gotten over him.
which leads me to ask this question...
do you think he still feels the same and has feelings for you?
the answer is probably no. given the time frame that you mentioned,
there was at least a chance that the two of you could have been together again,
if the indeed the feeling was mutual.
so given the circumstances, i suggest you move on.
it's nice to look back at the past once in a while. but it's not
good to dwell in the past. just imagine how many opportunities
you might have missed, just because you were inside your room crying,
for someone who is not around to reciprocate your love.
goodluck.
simplyme wrote:Sometimes, I do miss him, he was my first love and first everything.
I guess it's true what they say that you don't just easily forget your first love.
But I've learned to let go and maybe the right person for me is still out there.
Love yourself more by letting go especially if your ex has moved on already.
Stop hanging on to someone who doesn't give a damn about you anymore.
It's wiser to let go.
kalachuchi wrote:a BIG NOOOOOOOOO!!!!!
arisu wrote:I still talk with my first ex, we remained in good terms (friends) but he did discuss if we should get back together. The timing wasn't right. Right now, I am in a great relationship, I wouldn't give it up for the world though almost everything reminds me of my first ex. Even though i'm sad, I need to move on. As for my other exes, I don't want them back, there are too many painful memories.
Kahealani, is your avatar Rina Sakurai the japanese model in Ageha? I loooove her! She's so pretty.
beautywatchnyc wrote:Having fallen out of love doesn't give you the right NOT to fall in love all over again. Give love a chance to touch your heart and enjoy the bliss while it lasts. You have to be able to embrace the cycle of loving and sharing, not that you're encouraged to be promiscuous. That certainly is another matter. But you have to be realistic enough to always remember that nothing in a gay relationship is permanent. Even a "normal" male to female relationship may not last long. How much more for gay love? That's why it will serve to always leave a slice of your heart for youself to love. Personally, it's always been my desire to be in speaking terms with my ex's. And to that I've managed to succeed thus far. There's a promise of growth after a failed relationship. One learns and become a better persona after that. You cannot be bitter all the time and stay at that island for long. Because after a period of devastation, you realize that you could wake up and still see the sun rising in the east the next morning. If you are realistic enough, you must always bear in mind there's the impermanence, the instability, and the emptiness that go with a failed relationship. That's why it will serve to be civil with your ex's. Being intimate for a while, you'll never know when you will need his/her help over again.
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