English translation I got from this website-http://www.elnuevodia.com/cantasusverdadesmarisolmalaret-1310452.html
I am annoyed reading the entire article addressing Marisol as "he".lol
Sing their truths Marisol Malaret
Our Miss Universe eternal secrecy leaves and expresses what he thinks and what he wants us to know about his life
(CARLOS.GIUSTI @ GFRMEDIA.COM)
By Norma Borges / email@example.com
They forget that the fatal words are spoken. We also forget the impact of actions. But never forget what someone made us feel. Premise relevant to the effect achieved Malaret Marisol Contreras, the young woman in 1970 by winning a beauty competition, raised morale and spirits of an entire people. So much so that today remains "beauty queen", though she did not remember it deems necessary.
Do not want to talk about, period. He says that worn. It's been 42 years. And that girl, who remains humble, simple, beautiful, warns in his mirror the inexorable passage of time. I also feel in your body, as he admits. But not in his heart, or spirit, or his intellect, which is dedicated to developing, with a lot of reading, "read a lot about women's lives," he said during a recent conversation in which he sang his truths . He spoke of his existential downs, its successes and its falls, which has risen, he says, because of the strength that comes from God.
Lying on a white sofa, relaxed, chatting with an energy that modulates great, we spent almost two hours of conversation.
It was not easy to get to a colleague. Recall that the Malaret was a journalist, television host, entrepreneur and founded a very successful magazine at the time. He knew very well where the shots come. So, without any question, put it bluntly ...
"In my 63 years I can say, as did Pablo Neruda, 'I confess that I have lived'. One day I thought the last Pepsi in the desert, and then I fell precipitously. I was wrong, but I got up and continued risking, reinventándome. I have never hidden that I had a surgery when I turned 51. It was a facelift, and it was known at the time. I think I owe respect to the people. I look my age with pride. "
But people sometimes is not prudent. How do you handle that eye inquisitor who chase celebrities?
It is not easy, the island is very small. I have a beach near there that do not enjoy. I do not wear a bathing suit because they will see my cellulite, even more, they'll shoot and then the image will pass through the cell ... The truth is I have to thank these people how much I wanted to, but know that wrinkles are there are arthritic pains.
Do you think the age in women is detrimental? How much?
Here as in America, no matter what the woman look spectacular to watch out, you have had surgery and looks divine, accurate, to be delivered to the miracles of 'antiaging' ... The man, no matter their age, will always favored. It saddens me to know I have so much knowledge, both to communicate, much experience and as a matter of age I have to stay at a distance.
What else suffers a daughter of the post-war or "boomer"?
Mother "boomer" at the end, I went to work. We threw ourselves into the street, and to reinvent the wheel. I worked, I brought to the house, divided bills ... We believe the superwoman, working 24/7 and stray children, threatening to marriages that ultimately did not work. What reinvented? All at a given time has dislocated and are living the result. We wanted to do both at the same time got the legs. Now we are trying to put the reel back and rewind ..
Do you think neglected by the male roles as heads of households have subscribed to the social dislocation?
With the permission of the men I admire, there are very few parents, we can say are as good as mothers. Others are very good in support, but then you have to aguantarles other things like infidelity.
Is it a situation that you have lived?
Of course, how you gonna lie. Women tell me that has not passed one. Look back, remember our mothers' generation. Many husbands had mistresses and women, the poor, believed that they could not keep, and put up with. The great lords had to the other corners, and they tranquilitas. Eye, two women were used. Then the daughters saw these patterns. Well, I had no father, my father was absent in my house, but what of my aunts lived.
But Marisol!, How do you hold an infidelity?
I know very few faithful men. Truly, truly, no one should endure. But there are many circumstances. You have to see if it has been a slip, or living a parallel life. You have to weigh, put the situation on a scale.
Now if the situation uncomfortable, if you left your partner know and nothing happens, then ...
It also depends on your age women. If you are 30 years and a couple of children, who hold the suitcase and goes to prove that you really want the marriage. But if you try it, it's time to redirect, work to go ahead with your children, to claim your rights. It will be difficult but can be done. Now, do not tell that to a woman of 55 who has not saved. You will feel in the air!
What instances of aversive you life? What do not tolerate the screaming point enough!?
The homophobia and pedophilia. Zero tolerance!. But, moreover, fear that paralyzes. Every day we read cases of women killed by their partners and say, how is it that was not on time, how can you put a complaint against his partner and retired, how can he obtained protection and to no avail .. .
It is fear that gets you into the mind and the clouds you. Fear that children will find out and they ... See everything! Fear of breaking the precept of marriage. Nor is there the prince and I think that marriage is sacred if they both believe so.
Where did you come to enlightenment, so manifest that social intelligence?
I was always strong, rebellious, because I had to get up alone. I was raised by an aunt, which I thank God. If not, do not know where because I was over 10 years. She raised me with truth, free from prejudices, Christian-based.
I kept a quadriplegic brother, a sister of breeding black family lived more in the neighborhoods of Roosevelt and Puerto Nuevo.
My aunt gave me tools. I taught that the essence was in me. 'It's in you, is you,' he repeated. He spoke of the discrimination, that the colors did not matter, love of country. If we started doing this exercise of esteem and love, things would be otherwise. I was exposed to many things, good, but also some bad and I grew up.
What has been your most precipitous drop?
Wow. It was the time when I almost lost my temper. When word gets out that I have AIDS. I lost my vision, my faith in man, I stumbled. I became aggressive, rude ... I think it was my big downfall. I saved my daughter, who could not disappoint. Sacha was for me a gift of God. I went a few months to see if the water level down and I even thought never to return. The friends, as Gloria Leal-exeditora of El Nuevo Dia, called me every day I think for sure I was dead. At that moment everything came together, my divorce, the death of my aunt take care of my brother who completely left alone. Was starting a new marriage. It was when I worked at Image, by little enlío.
You thought of ending your life?
Never kill me! I speak of myself fully. No, no. When you think you can not believe anyone, trust anyone ... So it makes me sad when I see similarities in other women in Puerto Rico. I can understand why abused women. I understand the woman who feels depressed one day, you think you can not leave ...
The truth is I had and I have a daughter with whom spectacular, by then, nobody wanted to play in the park was left alone ... And I went with who was my partner, Gladys Aguayo. I said I need a mother, I need a grandmother. I looked for a core, a center.
Is that this is the basis of everything. Humans have to be supported by another, and another ... I put away in a small town in Florida. But one day I thought, I'm running away. I do not teach this to my daughter and I decided to return.
Once it was said that aspired to be mayor of San Juan ...
Yes, but no. I am not political. I'm a better consultant. I do not marry parties. If a PNP good, or good independence, popular ... I support it. Of these new leaders have come out, yet I have no opinion.
In history there are only two politicians who have earned my respect, Luis Ferre and Luis Munoz Marin. Well, they won the respect of the country. One more philanthropist than the other, but both loved to Puerto Rico. So I think the option is to love the country, its people.
The other day the Governor said he did not believe in government. What do you think?
That is right. This system does not work. You have to rebuild it. But beyond the call "establishment" Puerto Ricans have to start again, building homes and families. We mainly focus on the dysfunctional, those who are emotionally and mentally ill. What examples of life are getting our children?
I think the greater share of money in the government budget must go to the Department of the Family. Reinforce it with experts, with many social workers. Second, we must devote much energy to education, pay teachers well, better call them ... Behaviors should be monitored. If we rebuild these lines and improve the conditions of the police. This has to improve. Can be done.
Let's change the subject to most everyday matters. How running your day? Sabina hear music in the background, I see that your home is an area of peace, I love your library ...
Live well, live happy. My day may take informal psychologist making the friends of my daughter, friends, men, women ... I read a lot of women, Catherine of Russia, the women of Henry VIII. I feel the strength of women like Hillary Clinton, of relationships. I write. In fact, I have plans to write a book that you would imagine at least. But I can not advance detail.
I meditate and serve the community. No need to post it but if I have to clean a wound, and I clean. I share my bread with the one in the corner.
What personal quality modular wish? They say that you are strong ...
(Laughs) I have a excompañera, good friend, I said "white mistress." I say, 'Girl do not tell me so.' But I'm picky, me and the work. But also very human. I give 100% for you, but do not grab you in a lie. I do not like lies, envy, gossip. But, who knows me knows I have a strong character. Love me or resent me. That's my reality.
What professional performance of so many, you would have missed?
I hated the TV to death. I was 14 years in "Noche de Gala" and I looked like an idiot. But since he had a clothing business suit wearing, selling clothes. Then television began to make me respect. I worked in radio early in the morning. Today madrugaría not. But I love to buy a space to talk and make a blog, so I wonder ... I wonder of fashion, beauty, old age, old, men, work of romantic situations, illnesses and all talk.
Do you regret that triumphal parade down the catwalk at the Miss Universe 1970?
I have no regrets. You pay a price, but no regrets. I guess as Roberto Clemente never regretted. Both open a gap. I did not understand at that time the magnitude of what it meant winning the Miss Universe crown, and it hurt to see the communities that invited me to see me, and it cost much money. "But why should I have to bring, why pay so much for the competition," he thought. But eventually I came to understand that I represented, that stoking national pride. I understood.
Who or what is the best thing that happened?
My daughter Sacha, she is my life. I have not got close, working on Nickelodeon and is not like you can go see it when you want. She is the only thing I amarraría this life the day of my departure. I want you to know, she knows me, who can not keep. I will be cremated and want her to deposit my remains, looking for a flowering shrub, cute, so when you see flowers thinking, 'That's Mommy.' Also, can throw my ashes to the wind, running along the beach, to rub your face when you feel the breeze I'm giving her a kiss. She knows.
Majority of pageant critics firing scathingly remarks and unleashing vilest of comments to some candidates,ironically, are not even beautiful themselves aesthetically and worst characterwise.