I wonder why some forummers here would give you saracastic comments if you bash someone out of missosology or someone who is not even into pageants
for example if you bash a political group, actor, politician, random people from FB and twitter , certainly you will receive a reminder or worst is a sarcastic remarks advising you that what you are doing is wrong.
if someone posted something about their thoughts about a certain pageant event ,,or pageant personality wether its positive or not
the Thread starter or the forummer within that thread would definitely be bashed bigtime to the point that they will demean their fellow forrumer
thats a very sad fact that evolves here in missosology
missosologits + non missosologists feedback = advise all over the world to stop doing such because its not right
missosologist + pageant related thread = bash to death from fellow misosologist
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but there are really WAR FREAK bashers here....or people who just want to irritate people on purpose. There are also MOOD SWINGS that people should be aware of...just because a person had a "moment" does not mean that person is already a basher...maybe that person just had a bad day.
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I guess forums would be very boring without bashers.. One of the reasons why I'm hooked with Misso is the entertainment it gives to its members..the catfights, the exchange of nasty yet witty comments, etc.. But then, below-the-belt bashings should be minimized for they are not helpful at all.
As for me I have been a poster and recently a thread starter... I always conditioned my mind that you cannot please everybody... It's just that to my mind once you have made a post or you start up a thread it is expected upon you that you should always considered the THOUGHTS, COMMENTS, and INSIGHTS of the other forumers may it be in CONCURRENCE or in DISSENT to your views.. For me, that's the essence of coming up with threads and posts, ALLOWING OTHERS TO SHARE WHAT OR HOW THEY FEEL about the issue presented... JUST MY THOUGHT..
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I really appreciate your feedback , but this is actually whats happening now in misso ,
thread starter/ forrumer: i think this politician is doing such a stupid act .. etc etc or im growing mys muscles now can you pls like it on fb...
then here comes the other forumers: I think you should learn that politicians are blah blah blah,,, respect begets respect blah blah blah, stop ranting,, move on and dont ever post that kind of thoughts her because its unfair for them
now the other way around
thread starter/forummer: i see potential in this girl she is hardworking blah blah i think they have a very good preparation/catwalk etc
then here comes the forrumers: are you FUCKING KIDDING ME U IDIOT PATRIOTIC BLAH BLAH BLAH !!!,, youre new rep is fucking ugly
go to hell you bitch bla blah blah...
come on this is missosology , a place were you can share your thoughts be mature enough! you hate it when you bash other people or event that has nothing to do with pageant but you love it when you bash your fellow missosologist even if they have good threads or posts,,
its like you hate it when ur dog is shittin on somebody else's place but you love throwing shit on ur own dog which is worst
To me bashing a candidate is ok. I personally think if that girl see a post like that, she would want to work harder. However, last year when people bashed Shilpa and then after Miss Universe edited her pic with a cow horn or something........while it was funny, i think it was over the board. Without bashing, Misso would be boring, but i think people need to have limits.
As for bashing a TS i think it is unacceptable, because we all have different opinions and telling them their taste etc suck is just mean. Have limits and keep it strictly to the candidate and i'm ok with it.
well,I have always felt misso as my second family. And of course there will be conflicts,bashing and other stuffs. Not everyone have the same taste in beauty and not everyone will agree with you always.Just like in normal life there will be those who will be with us and some against us. Some like a specific contestant and some may hate it. You just have to be strong enough to let it go and stand for what you want.
Bashing is everywhere. It exists in real life. It awakens the sleepy, educates the ignorant, corrects a mistake, and opens up reality. But if it used to ridicule, becomes intolerable, anti-social, irresponsible, racially demeaning or totally out of context, it is unacceptable.
karissa wrote:Not everyone have the same taste in beauty and not everyone will agree with you always. Just like in normal life there will be those who will be with us and some against us.
But this is missosology, the place where people change their minds just to please others..
Mind changers are not bashers. They are spineless. But some people change mind for a reason, because they feel they have been corrected. Yet if they change a mind just to please in exchange of their personal convictions, yes, I would say they are spineless.
BASHING is an art. You really have to master the craft so it will appear like isn't BASHING at all. It's like sub-part criticism. But just like any other rules, you have to stop at red signal. Others are just plain stubborn and stupid and nasty.
but they dont bash the idea of the forrumer they bash the forrumer itself
instead of saying " that idea is stupid " because they are pertaining about sopmebody else's posts,
some would say " youre stupid! same as your idea blah blah blah " this one demeans the forumer not his/her post and whats too bad is that some freaf forumers here would demean you + your nationality + your school + your skin color + your race etc etc they will take it personally against you
mario_venum_rock wrote:.. whats too bad is that some freaf forumers here would demean you + your nationality + your school + your skin color + your race etc etc they will take it personally against you
That's true, many people here are very childish and you can't say "I don't like your queen" because they reply mentioning your family and other things that have nothing to do with this.
That's something that I have always wondered too, this is just a forum and queens are just a hobby.